Friday, June 4, 2010

Black sheep

If there is one thing that can make you feel completely alone and separated from friends and family, it's infertility

Johnny and I are already the black sheeps of our families. We have very different opinion and beliefs to those in our family and to be honest we don't have that much in common with them (except for sharing genetics, lol) we are often left out of things (not always in a malicious way) or the last to find things out.... I guess we are used to this but with what we are going through, it has really divided us even more

My family have tried to understand about our struggles but none of our family or friends have gone through this, we don't have anyone to talk t about this....no one to vent to, cry to, no one to really understand how we feel

I am lucky that I have some wonderful girls on the parenting forum I am on who have either been there or are going through it to be my shoulder to cry on, an ear that I can vent to, but Johnny doesn't have anyone to talk to about this (well except me).
I don't think his family know (or care) what we are going through, there is never any phone calls to see what is happening or how we are....why is there never any support for the males going through infertility?? :(
I guess if they never call to see how Jakson is, why would they call to see how he is?


I wouldn't wish infertility on anyone, but I also wish we had someone who really did understand this crap we are going through

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